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Jun/09
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quickie update

Court with Christine on Tuesday. I don’t know what she expects to gain further but she’s all revved, sending threats that I won’t know what hit me. The truth is we made a sensible agreement long before we broke up. She reneged on our agreement and packaged a complex lie as a lawsuit. I am not hanging any hope on justice, however. I’m just going to suit up, show up, and tell the truth as I have all along.

SHIT! Just as I was writing that, her attorney called and said Chris wants to ask the judge for anotherrrrrr extension. Apparently she is too ill to fly. The last time she used that excuse, I checked her myspace page and read she was looking for dancing shoes for some hoedown western party. I just checked her page right now and apparently she is throwing a party for Pride this weekend. I hope she isn’t sick, but I really would like to get this shit over with already… Christ, she has been dragging her lawsuit out for almost two years now. She never even shows up for her own continuancy hearings and at this point I think I am better acquainted with her attorney than she is! I already grieved my losses and really want to move on without her hands on my throat. I don’t have anything else for her to take. Seriously.

The price dropped by 20% on that adorable little cottage I fell in love with. I wish like hell I had $37k. M wouldn’t even have to switch schools, and it’s in a really sweet little neighborhood. Lookie.

M is having a pretty good summer. She is in folklorico dance class and a drama troupe. learning guitar from a book I gave her, and studying tarot with me. She reads alot, which is a MIRACLE. The meds have evened out some and I’m really seeing some improvement with her helping me and babygirl out around the house. Since she was so often in charge before her momma died, sometimes she has a hard time understanding that she aint running things. The chubby little girl who came into my life at age 11 is now  leaning on 14, so an overcompensated pull toward independence is to be expected. I guess. I just buckle down on RESPECT and don’t tolerate anything less. It’s exhausting sometimes, but my girls are the biggest blessings in my life.

babygirl went back to work today. Yay! Now let’s hope this poor lady she’s caring for lives for more than a month.

Me? I am working on a big site for a writing institute, a site for a chef that’s on hold for the moment, and finishing up a site for a chiropractor friend this weekend. There is a 900 pound box of files I picked up from my old attorney that I need to organize to defend against this lawsuit. Hate that. The judge already said he won’t grant her another extension so hopefully this will be DONE soon.

MIss all my faraway friends. I think I am gonna fly up to California inAugust while M is in camp. Got some flyer miles I need to use! :)

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  1. lizs18
    8:07 pm on June 25th, 2009

    I do hope the court things get taken care of soon. I would think that both of you would want this over with as soon as possible. No reason to continue dragging it out for either oe of you.

    I’m glad M is showing improvement and that your babygirl got a job. I hope all continues to go well with them.

    And you never know, maybe the money will fall into your lap for the cottage ;)

  2. daddyrhon
    8:49 pm on June 25th, 2009

    UNIVERSE! Please send me cottage money! Hey, it worked last Christmas when I needed to trade my tree, and again when I asked for a perfect desk to appear for baby. Ya never know. :) Thanks, Liz.

  3. artwrangler
    9:22 pm on June 25th, 2009

    wow … I think she has some issues … therapy and meds perhaps?

    I hope it goes well and is OVER soon.

    The court may tire of the endless extension requests I imagine …

  4. daddyrhon
    9:33 pm on June 25th, 2009

    Thanks. At this point, I imagine the whole thing is just an annoyance for her too.

  5. mmmicx13
    12:34 am on June 26th, 2009

    It would be nice to meet up in person Rhon if you did come to California.

    I hope the court doesn’t grant the extension so this stuff can be resolved and put in the past where it belongs.

    Take care.

  6. daddyrhon
    1:29 am on June 26th, 2009

    You know I’m gonna see you, gal! Glad you are home and hope all is well on planet M.

  7. turkee182
    11:10 pm on June 27th, 2009

    okay that is crazy cheap and a nice looking little house to boot… but the pink room might have to go lol
    Now I’m wanting to move to Texas

  8. Linda Sumrow
    7:03 pm on March 23rd, 2010

    Hi there long stranger! Was thinking of you the other day. Please write me and tell me all thats going on with you.
    Huggs Linda

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